Since much of the sex toy industry is focused on female pleasure, the idea of “sex toys for men” seems almost a taboo. For men, climax can be much easier to reach, but there are still a few different tools you can try that could help build passion between you and your partner if you feel like trying something new.
Rings placed around the penis can help withhold orgasm, while also creating a pleasurable experience for her. Some work by vibrating. Battery-powered rings can create an invigorating feeling when pressed up against her clitoris, while some kinds of rings even allow you to rotate the vibrator underneath the penis to press against him too. These vibrations can help make reaching orgasm much easier, and can also help you come together.
Lubes and pleasure gels are a bit of fun for both partners, or even on your own. The extra moisture makes it much easier to play, especially if you want to heighten the action quickly, or if you want to create some excitement manually with each other. Try out Durex® Play® Tingling lube during masturbation or with a partner for extra cooling sensations, or turn up the heat with Durex Play Warmer.
These sex toys are designed to make manual play that much more fun for men. Some varieties have an open end that makes them easier to use, and other varieties have a closed end that adds suction. You can add lubrication for more stimulation, or play a little more with oral (with an open end).
Some other ideas...
While these ideas aren’t strictly for men, you may want to have a little fun with some change of roles. With a little fun and a memorable safe word, silk ties or even handcuffs, could help get him off. If you combine this with a feather, or other teasing toy, then you could really spice things up together.