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A Quick Guide to Cunnilingus - By Karine

If you’re wondering how to give great oral sex, you’re definitely not going to find your answers in porn. My practical cunnilingus tips and tricks might be a lot more effective.  

1. Ask your partner what they like.

Every body is different and each person enjoys different types of stimulation. To please your partner, you just need to know what they like! Communication is the key to a fulfilling sex life. 

2. Be attentive to your partner

This is the most important thing! Be attentive to how your partner’s body reacts to the different feelings you’re giving them. Our bodies talk! Make sure to listen. 

3. Try different motions

Different motions... What motions? Try swirling your tongue in a circle or sliding it up and down or left to right. You can suck with your whole mouth or flick the clitoris with the tip of your tongue. Try using more or less saliva and going fast and slow. Experiment with wider or smaller movements. But don’t do all these at the same time! Try various things gradually to figure out what works best.

4. Try different speeds

Again, each person is different. I recommend a slower approach. This allows the other person to feel each sensation and focus on what they really like. You can choose to speed up or slow down afterwards.

5. Tease a little

Stimulation during cunnilingus is about more than just the clitoris. You don’t have to put all your focus on orgasm as the single goal. Oral sex is most pleasurable when it’s an overall sensual experience. You can move your tongue around the clitoris and that can be just as exciting.

6. Enjoy yourself!

You don’t have to be constantly performing. Oral sex should be enjoyable for both partners. Remember that it’s exciting to give someone else pleasure!

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