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Take Her To Paradise - How To Please A Woman

We at Durex Canada believe in sex equality; women deserve to feel equally as good as men. Still, for a lot of people regardless of their gender, the efforts in learning how to please a woman sexually can become stifled by other priorities or interests. Particularly, if someone partnered with a woman has already had an orgasm they may feel less inclined to make her satisfied afterwards. They may also feel unprepared, like they don’t know what they’re doing or, on the flipside, may think they know how to make a female cum but end up falling short in their approach.

The same can be said about women wondering how to cum faster on their own. Sometimes we’re not given the tools or resources to help guide us to the perfect place of pleasure and we can begin to feel like something’s wrong. Rest assured, there’s nothing wrong with being unable to reach an orgasm right now. However, let us provide some reading materials, mood enhancers, and hands-on tips that support how to please a woman sexually.

When an orgasm is achieved, nothing feels better. It’s that sweet release that makes us feel profoundly pleased, dripping wet, and absolutely delighted. Here we’ll list exotic treats on how to give a woman an orgasm, or show yourself a great time. Warning: earth-shattering experiences may occur.

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1. Learning How To Cum Faster

Whether you’re looking to make her orgasm or looking to make yourself excited, our collection of information includes a bit of both so everyone gets a happy ending. While the ‘cumming on me’ keywords you type into the search bar on a porn website might give you some visual knowledge, we’re going to go more in-depth so you can get up close and personal later. Let’s make her sex life better, together. Learning how to please a woman sexually starts now!

Speaking of, check out Ways To Improve Your Sex Life for the most sexy, pleasurable methods known to humans.

2. Check Out The Kama Sutra

If you’re looking for classic ways to give her an orgasm, and you don’t mind a little hard reading, we definitely suggest opening up the most iconic sexual playbook of all-time written by Indian philosopher, Vatsyayana. Though some sex positions stated may be a lot more difficult to practise than others, keep a close eye on the Champagne Room (for some seated pleasure), Lotus (for more of a face-to-face connection), Magic Mountain (for scissoring-style contact), and Ballet Dance (for a standing ovation). Positions like these that directly tap into the G-spot are extra delicious. If there’s a penis involved, find a condom that best fits here before practising how to please a woman sexually with wild sex positions.

For more of our favourite moves, get into Seven Sex Positions For Her Orgasmic Pleasure and you’ll thank us later.

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3. Become The Body Expert

First and foremost, how to make a female cum can really boil down to knowing her body cues, what works, and what doesn’t. If you’re looking to give a woman an orgasm (after consent was exchanged), let her body language and verbal expressions guide you into leading with more pleasure. Be on the lookout for heavy breathing, moans and sighs, goosebumps and shivers - these can all indicate that the sexual experience is preparing to take off. Your touch alone can create these bodily reactions. Communicate with one another along the way and you’re another step closer to pleasing her. 

4. Create Mood Magic

Set the stage for sexy time by making the space an oasis of pleasure. Thought starters can include:

  • Dimming the lights or lighting candles to increase the ambience for eroticism
  • Performing a slow, teasing striptease to help get your partner(s) going before the main event
  • Filling the room with a vibrant scent that can help add an extra smell of sex in the air
  • Beginning with a relaxing and soothing massage for her (explore some of Durex couples & massage lubes* for wet options)

By taking the extra time and care to help her relax, you’re one step closer to reaching how to make a woman cum.

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5. Figure Out Foreplay Fun

As was just stated, a 2-in-1 massage gel and personal lubricant, like the Durex Play Massage 2 in 1 Ylang Ylang*, can help be the catalyst to great foreplay. There’s nothing quite like a long, slow sensual massage that can turn into something more intimate with a great all-over-body lube. Lubes have the power to help give a female an orgasm because, when applied to fingers, can smooth out tense situations.

On top of lube, giving her oral sex can heighten the chances of her orgasm. Try licking around her thighs to build it up at first, then stick your tongue around her hood and clit for a passionate moment. Take your thumb and use it to rub her clitoris as you’re licking, for more satisfaction. Your fingers are more magical than you may think!

To complete our foreplay tips for now, why not experiment with the Durex Intense Bullet* vibrator on the clitoris or labia area for more guided (and vibrating) stimulations. The best part is… it’s waterproof as well - so you can help make her cum in the shower.

6. Embrace Edging

Say you’re not exactly looking for advice on how to cum faster and, instead, want to prolong the length of the orgasm - making it more intense for her. We recommend edging, which is the process of bringing someone close to the point of orgasm but holding back the stimulation moments before climax. You can edge her during oral sex sessions, fingering foreplay, or using sex toys. And, if solo, you can edge yourself during masturbation. It’s hot, edgy, and can be that much more pleasing in the end.

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7. To Finish Things Off

She’ll be cumming ‘round the Durex when she cums, we know that for a fact. After learning tips on how to make her cum, we have a feeling you’ll be embracing the feminine divine and a whole lot of sexy time. As always, ask for consent before engaging in sexual activity and prioritize protection. Now go on, give her a treat.

Want more of a sexy scoop? Read What Is Sex Positivity? The Benefits Of Having A Sex Positive Life for some open-minded history.

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