CHRISTMAS DATE IDEAS THAT HELP HEAT UP THE PLEASURE

‘Tis the season to get together and rejoice in the spirit of good company – especially when that company happens to be a significant other or love interest that makes you feel all warm and cozy. After all, nothing feels better than celebrating Christmas with your partner(s).

But are you still searching for sexy Christmas ideas that put a sensual spin on traditional holiday staples? Want to give more intimate Christmas gifts that can make the receiver sing carols of pleasure? Feeling that ‘ho ho ho’ life this year?

Let us help stuff your stockings with the best sexy Christmas suggestions you can do indoors that bring a warm welcome to the holidays. Even if you’re single, we got you covered with steamy solo recommendations that’ll help flicker your own flame.

Baby, it’s warm inside.

Couple leans into each other lovingly with holiday supplies in hand.

1. Unwrapping Christmas Date Ideas

There’s plenty to do outside with your loved ones over the holiday season, such as holding each other tightly as you slide down a hill on a toboggan or canoodling over a cup of hot cocoa after skating hand-in-hand. But, there’s something a bit sexier about indoor Christmas date ideas that allows for more erotic opportunities. Plus, the privacy opens the door for more potential.

We’ve cobbled together a list (and checked it twice) of the most intimate Christmas activities that give way to a whole lot of giving… and receiving. Without any more introduction, let’s light a match and warm up to a sexy Christmas.

For more steam, check out 4 Ways To Make The Holiday Sparks Fly for great ways to spice up your romance during the most wonderful time of the year.

Two partners hug in front of an indoor light display and Christmas tree.

2. Erecting The Holiday Tree

Nothing says celebrating Christmas quite like setting up the annual holiday tree, making sure every ornament is hung with care and the angel takes its position on top. But what if, this year, you decide to make this tradition a special time spent with your partner(s)?

You can turn the holiday tree ceremony into a sexy Christmas date idea by fooling around underneath the creation after setup or by using the ornaments to cover your body – tempting your partner(s) to take them off you to hang on the tree one by one. Make this moment spent together one that’s full of sexual tension, as you continue to deck the holiday tree with care.

Who knows, maybe you’ll be inclined to warm up to each other’s bushes inspired by the festive one you’ve created together. 

A couple clink their hot chocolate mugs together while wearing reindeer antlers.

3. Having A Movie Marathon

Most memories in life don’t feel as cozy, intimate, or comfortable quite like binging on Christmas flicks. And, if you’re spending Christmas with your girlfriend, boyfriend, or significant other, it’s prime time to cuddle up together and turn on your favourite specials.

To make moments like these even sexier, stroke each other during slower parts and use your body heat to get closer under the sofa blankets. Turn that PG holiday picture into something a little more racy.

Two lovers embrace each other with smiles by their Christmas tree.

4. Decorating Together

Has that mistletoe been put up yet? Take the time with your partner(s) to create interior Christmas magic by making the household all the more merry. Even if you don’t live together, you can invest that decorating energy into one of your homes – turning a Christmas date idea into a productive creative activity.

This also gives you a chance to wrap gifts together. Make things even sexier by using leftover wrapping paper, ribbons, and bows to decorate each other’s bodies – then undressing your partner(s) to reveal their best natural gifts.

There’s a dick in the box joke here somewhere.

If you want a bit of wrapping guidance, listen to our Tips For Wrapping Your Package to give the most aesthetically pleasing gifts.

A couple clinks holiday glasses together in a loving manner on the sofa.

5. Serving Up Festive Cocktails Or Mocktails

As an add-on to your potential intimate Christmas dinner menu, it’s a sexy date idea to shake or stir things up by making jolly mixed drinks (with or without the alcohol) with your partner(s). Channel your inner mixologist and loosen things up with a refreshing drink together, but ALWAYS drink responsibly.

For a well-crafted selection of virgin drinks that scream ‘sexy Christmas’, check out these recipes.

Woman wrapping her arms around her partner.

6. Trying Spirited New Sex Positions

Make the bumpy ride of winter weather all the better with a uniquely relevant Christmas sex position such as:

  • Reindeer style – one partner positions themselves on all fours towards the edge of the bed while the other holds onto the hips (as if they’re reins) and thrusts in and out (with some light spanking to suggest going faster)
  • Elf on the shelf – one partner sits atop a surface that brings them at level with the other partner’s crotch (the seat options are endless, making for a versatile sexperience)
  • Sitting on Santa’s lap – this one’s quite obvious as one partner will sit firmly upright on a chair while the other props themself on top (whisper what you really want for Christmas while in this position)

Durex Intense Vibrating Bullet rests in its packaging on two pillows.

7. Exploring Our Toy Shop

Explore those Christmas intimates you already have at home or look to making more room for sex toys to continue having a sexy Christmas. Whether you’re dating anyone or not, our Durex® Intense Vibrating Bullet* has the discrete power to stimulate erotic areas such as the nipples, clitoris, and more.

Or maybe you’re after something that can help him get more in the mood – such as the Durex® Intense Pleasure Ring™* that helps him stay harder for longer while being compatible with latex condoms. And, speaking of condoms, check out the Durex® Mutual Climax* pack sizes which are designed to bring partners closer together with the use of an enhanced lubricant.

Still in need of crossing one more thing off your partner’s Christmas wishlist? Any of the above products can make the hottest intimate Christmas gifts.

Two people dancing around each other during the holidays in the kitchen.

8. Stripteasing To Sexy Christmas Songs

Hit the music. Another Christmas date idea that’s sure to heat up pleasure between you and your partner(s) is by performing an erotic dance to the tune of a familiar holiday melody. Get creative here. How would ‘Last Christmas’ look if you were removed an article of clothing every time the song mentioned the word ‘you’, or what if your partner(s) pinned you back in a chair while they gyrated on you to the classic ‘All I Want For Christmas Is You’.

But, why stop there? Make this idea even more of a sexy Christmas shenanigan by incorporating a Durex® Couples & Massage Lube in the mix. These can help soothe and tease your partner(s) even more when giving them a striptease or lap dance worthy of many praises, or vice versa.

A set of partners wearing Santa hats lean into each other in bed for a quick kiss.

9. Roleplaying Holiday Characters

For the kinkier, who aren’t shy to dabble in roleplay building fantasy, you can have a sexy Christmas by embodying a well-known holiday figure and personifying them in the bedroom – for your lover(s). Using your imagination and through the art of dress-up, you can put on a great show as a holiday character with a naughtier side. Shortlist of characters include:

  • Krampus
  • Scrooge
  • Grinch
  • Mrs. Claus
  • Buddy the Elf
  • The Yule Goat
  • Various Christian Religious Figures
  • Frosty The Snowman
  • Jack Frost

It’s like the sexy, adult version of a Christmas play.

To discover more ways to have a sexy Christmas together, read Naughty Or Nice: The 12 Days Of Getting It On for the hottest holiday gifts.

Two men share a warm drink together on a snowy night outdoors.

10. Wrapping Things Up

After riding out our sexy Christmas date idea list with us we feel you’re beyond ready to take control of your sex sleigh and hit all the pleasure boxes this holiday season. Surprise your date with an unusual yet spunky suggestion they’ll never forget over the winter break and colder months to come.

Most importantly, if you have a penis, always make sure to wrap your package in a condom that best fits you in order to have a more protected celebration. Let it snow safe sex for all.

*Ensure this product is right for you. Always read and follow the label before use.

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