How Do You Scissor For Pleasure? Sexual Scissor Positions Revealed
Who says scissoring is restricted to arts & crafts? At this workshop, it’s all about sexual scissoring – the intimate connection that brings closeness in ways other positions may not be able to match. It’s more than just a physical form, it’s about friction, rhythm, and perfectly aligning two bodies to maximize stimulation while creating a shared sensation that blends pleasure with emotional intimacy. The unique act involves an engagement of the body’s sensitive areas, allowing each partner to feel the other’s excitement and movement in one deeply satisfying experience.
Does scissoring feel good? Absolutely. What makes scissoring feel so good is the pressure it creates in all the right places. The grinding of hips, thighs, and pelvises together engages the clitoris and other erogenous zones, sparking waves of pleasure that build naturally. It’s an empowering moment for many, as it puts all partners in control of their own pleasure while maintaining a close, connected vibe. Nothing feels better than unlocking new pleasure.
Scissor Sex Positions And Tips Unravelled
No matter if you’re experimenting with scissoring for the first time, are an avid explorer and want to fine tune some of your skills, or are just curious about what the act entails, read on to discover more. Before going over scissor positions, let’s get into some starter tips and provide background on how to get the most from this unique form of intimacy. No matter how you identify or what genitalia you have, anyone (with or without a vagina) can participate in scissoring.
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Lean Into Lube And Toys
Since scissoring isn’t about pounding or penetration, and it’s done by rubbing together, you’re going to want a little or a lot of lubrication to get you on your way. The right lube will help reduce friction when engaging in sexual scissor positions and can prevent chafing or irritation that might result from prolonged grinding. Skin-to-skin contact and pressure pairs nicely with lube as the movement will feel less abrasive or uncomfortable and more smooth and sensual.
Whether you’re dealing with natural dryness or just want to amplify the moment, use a lube like Durex ® Intense Orgasmic® Gel* to increase sensitivity of her intimate areas (like the clitoris). This special product is meant for more intense pleasure that’s designed to bring waves of warming, cooling, and tingling sensations. Another great option is Durex® Passion Cherry Lubricant* which comes with the rich aroma and flavour of cherries while helping ease vaginal dryness and discomfort. Add a couple drops of your lube of choice to the vagina and other areas to make the movements more fluid. The opportunity to unlock new pleasure is endless.
Also, you might want to up the vibe a bit more by gracing the inner thighs, nipples, or labia with a sex toy like the Durex® Intense Bullet*. This discreet vibrator is made of a soft & smooth texture that allows for all-over body stimulation. It’s compact, waterproof, and incredibly quiet (so you don’t have to be).
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Find Your Best Scissor Position
How about getting into position now? Sexual scissoring positions, that is. Remember, scissoring can happen with men, women, non-binary individuals, and however else you identify as. For those with penises, scissoring can become a penetrative act. It’s all about pressing genitals closely together and working in synchronization. Here are three moves that are sure to bring you closer together.
The Classic resembles two scissors meeting in the middle, and is achieved by laying on your side with your legs fully spread out and having your partner, facing the opposite direction, slide themself between your legs so the genitals connect. A natural rhythm will begin to happen as you both thrust and bump, using the genitals as something of a trampoline-like bounce.
The Leg Lift Missionary is one that requires a bit more practice, but is extremely enjoyable nonetheless. You can attempt this position by having one partner lay on their back with one leg lifted up into the air and have the other partner straddle one leg on the bed while holding the lifted one. Shift your bodies side-to-side until you find your tempting tempo.
The Thigh Ride is a great one for foreplay or cool down and requires one partner climbing on top of the other who’s laying on their back with their legs spread. The partner on top straddles the bottom partner’s thighs so their upper leg rocks the genitals. These scissoring positions are anything but snippy.
Now Get Leggy With It
Evidently not just an office supply in your desk drawer, scissoring is an after-hours activity that’ll have everyone unable to watch the clock to keep track of time. After covering basic sexual scissoring positions and tips to remember, you’re now more informed on the phenomenon. Keep checking in on your partner(s) to make sure they’re comfortable during the process and remember that finding your rhythm, dealing with dryness and potential queefing can all be part of the ride. With scissoring pleasure, nothing feels better.
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