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Bedroom Bucket List: New Things To Try In Bed This Year
Want more sexy successes in your life? New Year’s resolutions don’t have to all be about kale smoothies and early morning workouts. Why not focus on another area of your life that could use some more attention to detail, and a lot of excitement? That’s right, it’s all about new sex things to try that can shake up your intimate routine.
The following resolutions promise to add more heat, fun, and exploration to your sex life. Whether you’re single and ready to mingle or happily coupled up, there’s always room for new sexual stuff to try. From discovering playful kinks to setting personal challenges that boost your confidence in and out of the bedroom, this list of sex resolutions has something for everyone.
The best part? These aren’t pipe dreams – they’re completely attainable goals designed to ignite your curiosity and leave you feeling more connected to yourself and your potential partner(s). Nothing feels better than a new, more sexually adventurous, you.
New Sex Things To Try To Keep You On Your Toes
New stuff to try in bed may sound ambiguous, sure, but there are practical little things you can do to yourself, or your partner(s), after the New Year’s ball drops that can get the ball rolling. If a shakeup is what you’re looking for, then this article has your name written all over it. From a bang-on position to other explorations, here’s your newest resolution list you’ll actually want to get started on checking off ASAP.
Conjure Up A Love Ritual
For all the spellbound sweeties who can’t get enough of Halloween, or all things witchy and spiritual, this one’s for you. Whether you have a partner or not, prioritize your own pleasure in bed by setting aside a dedicated time and space for self-exploration. Whether that be channelling your creative writing on paper to recite a self-love spell or chanting with your partner(s) about new things you want to try in bed together, the choice is yours. Invest in quality toys, light candles, and put on a mysteriously lovely playlist that puts you in the mood. This resolution is about making intimacy within yourself a fuller experience, not just an afterthought. Start the new year with you.
Wear Something You’ve Always Wanted To But Never Have
Sexual stuff to try is not restricted to just the act of sex itself – you can get more in the mood by slipping on that article of clothing that gives you supreme confidence. If you’re on your own and want to warm up before getting yourself off, experiment with sliding on some fuzzy socks or latex gloves to see how you feel rather than being completely bare. If you’re with your partner(s), put on that sexy underwear or getup you’ve wanted to show off for a while, and watch their mouth(s) widen open in delight as you model for them. This suggestion is both kinky and cozy – but there’s no freak limit to the way this can go, so turn your attire into a performance or feeling you won’t grow tired of.
Get With The Good Vibes
If you haven’t yet already used a vibrator to up your private sex situations with yourself or your partner(s), here’s the push you need to try it out. A small bullet vibrator, like the Durex® Intense Bullet*, can give you that added pleasure this new year due to its small and compact shape with big stimulating abilities. Use it on your or your partner’s nipples, clitoris, labia, shaft, or anywhere else you please for intense sensations that can have you bringing the lil buddy to bed every… single… time.
For tips on how to use it effectively and pleasurably, check out The Sexiest Ways To Use Our Most Discreet Vibrator.
Take Up A Brand New Sex Position
Are you feeling sick of the same sex acts and want a rebirth (without the unexpected baby)? Oftentimes, the best new thing to try in bed is an interesting and pleasurable sex position that can take you all the way there. If you’re riding solo, try masturbating with your legs up against your bed headboard or the wall – really stretching yourself out from a different vantage point as opposed to laying flat on your back.
If you’re with your partner(s), get yourselves comfortable with a position you’ve never attempted before (whether that be hanging off the bed or taking up every inch of the bed). One position you can explore is The Crossroads - where one partner lies flat on their back while the other straddles them at a perpendicular angle. This creates unique sensations and stimulation angles, offering a fresh perspective on traditional horizontal positions. Just don’t forget the condoms*!
Take a look at more positions below that you can see yourself take centre stage in.
Easy Sex Positions For Everyone To Try is a complete guide to more guided pleasure as you renew yourself this year.
Be On The Edge Of Glory
Edging, also known as ultimate orgasm control, is a thrilling way to deepen your personal understanding of pleasure – right from the comfort of bed. This technique involves bringing yourself, or allowing your partner(s) to bring you, close to climax then pausing to delay gratification. Repeat this process a few times before finally letting go for an intensified release. You’ll feel like a brand new person after the edging session.
Want additional edging advice? Read These Hot Tips Can Help You Last Longer In Bed for climax control notes and more.
Have The Sexiest Year Ever
There you go – five steamy resolutions to make your new year anything but boring, all without having to leave your bed. Whether you’re doing it for yourself or sharing your sheets with others, these ideas are meant to spark interest, boost confidence, and maybe even leave you with a few stories to share (or not). So start fluffing those pillows and make this year the one you check off every sexy bucket list idea!
*Ensure this product is right for you. Always read and follow the label before use.
