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SEX 101: GETTING STARTED

Looking for honest answers to real life sex questions? Start here.
From first-time sex to masturbation and protection — we'll teach you everything you need to know.

COOL AND ORIGINAL IDEAS FOR A FIRST DATE

Cool and original ideas for a first date - KARL HARDY Planning a date isn’t always easy. Sometimes it can be downright stressful! Whether you’re da...
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CAN YOU LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY WITH SEX TOYS? By Shadeen

FIRST TIME TIPS CAN YOU LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY WITH SEX TOYS? What does it mean to lose your virginity? Well, the term doesn't have one universal mea...
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A quick guide for a successful first date - By Karine

A QUICK GUIDE FOR A SUCCESSFUL FIRST DATE Don’t put too much pressure on yourself Be yourself  Listen  Be positive  Come prepared Honestly, this ...
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A Quick Guide to the Perfect French kiss - By Karine

A QUICK GUIDE TO THE PERFECT FRENCH KISS Be in the moment. Slow and gentle. Swirl your tongue around. Vary the intensity. Tease with your tongue. ...
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A Quick Guide to Cunnilingus - By Karine

A QUICK GUIDE TO CUNNILINGUS Ask your partner what they like Be attentive Different motions Different speeds Tease a little Enjoy yourself If you...
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SO YOU WANT TO BUY A SEX TOY?

SO YOU WANT TO BUY A SEX TOY? Shadeen Francis: LFMT, CST First time shopping for sex toys? It is normal to be unsure of where to look or overwhelm...
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THE SEX AND SELF PODCAST "LET'S TALK ABOUT FIRSTS"

FIRST TIME TIPS "LET'S TALK ABOUT FIRSTS" First dates. First relationships. And yes — first time sex. Everything’s on the table in our latest episo...
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SEXUAL READINESS CHECKLIST

By Lindsay Kenna

Check out this article to learn about first time tips by Lindsay Kenna, a certified sexologist!

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